014: Finding Love by Understanding Your Childhood with Riana Milne

Riana Milne is a Certified, Global Life, Dating & Relationship Coach for over 10 years, and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor for over 19 years.

She’s a #1 Best Selling author, Coach for the Docu-Series Radical Dating – Finding Lasting Love Over 40; and Host of her live Global radio show and Podcast, Lessons in Life & Love.

As a Certified Clinical Trauma & Addictions Professional. Riana offers VIP, 1-on-1 and Group Coaching for Singles & Couples through her Life and Love Training Academy. She Coaches women, men, Straight and LGBT clients of all ages.

Riana’s has her own App: Lessons in Life & Love on the Go! and two books, including the #1 Best Seller, LOVE Beyond Your Dreams – Break Free of Toxic Relationships to Have the Love You Deserve.

Riana Milne is a Certified, Global Life, Dating & Relationship Coach for over 10 years, and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor for over 19 years. She’s a #1 Best Selling author, Coach for the Docu-Series Radical Dating – Finding Lasting Love Over 40; and Host of her live Global radio show and Podcast, Lessons in Life & Love, which can be heard on iTunes, Spotify, iHeart and TuneIn. As a Certified Clinical Trauma & Addictions Professional. Riana offers VIP, 1-on-1 and Group Coaching for Singles & Couples through her Life and Love Training Academy. She Coaches women, men, Straight and LGBT clients of all ages.

Riana’s has her own App: Lessons in Life & Love on the Go! and two books, including the #1 Best Seller, LOVE Beyond Your Dreams – Break Free of Toxic Relationships to Have the Love You Deserve and its sister book, LIVE Beyond Your Dreams – From Fear & Doubt to Personal Power, Purpose & Success - addresses Life Transitions, Personal Transformation, and Relationships with yourself and others.

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Three Key Points:

Painful or uncomfortable experiences from childhood can cause disease, trauma, or major damage to us in adulthood.

Many relationship problems come from childhood wound or trauma. Most people have two or three moments of trauma in their childhood, but some people can have more. Bringing these experiences into love and dating can create toxic relationships.

Wake-up calls happen no matter what. What’s important is to treat the wake-up call as a moment of empowerment, something to learn or grow from.

Show Notes:

4:50 — Riana shares her miracle of helping people who have childhood, relationship or dating trauma. If people are affected financially or romantically, Riana helps them get beyond the emotional triggers of trauma, so they can live the life they love.

5:39 — Looking to change the way that the world loves, Riana wants to improve the level of respect, the level of communication and kindness in people’s relationships.

8:45 — Social Media should be treated as an information tool when it comes to relationships. Riana shares that she prefers living in the real world, rather than living in a machine of the digital world.

10:03 — Riana shares how social media can get in the way of intimacy, can lead to cheating, and lose a connection with the people in our real world. It’s important to live consciously, presently, and in the now.

13:06 — Toxic relationships led Riana to a wake-up call. She started a journey of intensive research in relationships and love.

21:49 — Riana teaches to make your pain into your passion and purpose. Then add forgiveness, which is the most important spiritual part to create transformation.

25:13 — Vince shares that you can find gifts in the most traumatizing experiences.

26:11 — Riana started a group VIP transformation program for women and shares how women who suffer from traumatic relationships can have a transformational experience in their love lives.

29:14 — The best advice that Riana has ever received was when she was a promotional model for the radio station. She heard the words “Hon, you’ve got to have a gimmick. You’ve got to do something that’s different than anyone else, but your hearts got to be tied to it to.” Do what you love but make it different than everyone else’s.

31:46 — The important thing to understand that everyone is their own puzzle depending on what they’ve gone through. What works for someone else may not work for you. You can’t change what you don’t understand.

Imagine Miracles Resources:

1) Your Unique Purpose Formula: Vince's Five Step Process to Discover Your Purpose and Your Miracle Life.

2) C.R.E.A.T.E Model: Vince's Six Steps to Creating and Living the Life that You Desire.

3) Free Chapter: From Vince's Best-selling Book Sharing the Four Things You Don't Know Keeping You From Living a Miracle Life.